Tomatos

People wish to be liked, not be endured with patient resignation. They get offended when they feel that you are tolerating them until you finish whatever is between the two parties, keeping in mind that tolerating is way more tiresome than dealing with a person that you like. They should feel flattered and important enough for me to not avoid dealing with them and actually making the effort of tolerating.

You can't blame anyone for not liking you! He can't help it ! But if your point is that everyone you deal you should have liked in the first place , then you'll end up with four people that you like and the irony of fate could make these people not like you nor like you.